How would you describe the Bible? What does theology refer to? Have you ever pondered these questions? Did you know most conflicts within the Body of Christ arise from a lack of understanding the connection between the Bible and theology?

 

In 2017, I argued with a member of our house fellowship group. He studied theology in a Swiss theological institution at the time. I shared my dissatisfaction with the multiple conflicting theological beliefs present among different Christian denominations and groups. The reason for the lack of consensus among Catholics, Calvinists, Arminians, and other groups on certain sections of the Logos eluded me. It is obvious these movements cannot effectively unite in advancing the Gospel. The house fellowship member said he doesn’t see any problem with that. In fact, he defended these groups and stated that everyone should have their own theology.

 

I think I understood the point he was trying to make. The crux of his argument was that we must have diversity in the Body of Christ. Being Catholic, Apostolic, Calvinist, Arminian, Preterist, or any other group represents diversity. I had a feeling his grasp of diversity was off because of the conflicting foundational beliefs in these Christian movements. As they strive to construct their individual belief systems, many have established cults, religious groups, and occult movements. However, I could not articulate my thoughts clearly.

 

The argument left me intrigued, so I embarked on a research journey. The journey has been nothing short of extraordinary. Many of us have an incorrect understanding of diversity. According to 1 Corinthians 12, true diversity does not undermine unity. In fact, God created diversity to enhance unity, not to promote conflicts, misunderstandings, and disputes.

 

In order to achieve unity, we need consensus on the Logos, yet our individual contexts give rise to different rhemas. Regrettably, there are sharp disagreements among most Christian movements regarding the interpretation of some parts of the Logos. Each of these Christian groups follows their own path. Yet, our collective longing is to move in the same direction. The problem stems from our perception of theology and how we create our theological beliefs. The Holy Spirit cannot endorse conflicting theologies, then expects us to move in one direction, as stated in the Bible. Forget.

 

 

It’s about time we acknowledge the reality. We must gain a clearer understanding of how the Bible defines diversity. We should carefully look at the angle from which Paul approaches the divisions in the Body of Christ. The Bible’s content and the theologies we generate have obvious distinctions. Moving in the same direction requires understanding them. Allow me to talk about a few of them on this platform. I would appreciate it if you’d join me on this journey. By God’s grace, let’s reason and put some things in their right places.

 

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Divorce is a serious thorn in God’s marriage institution. We need to ask ourselves the right questions when dealing with marriage issues. Watch John deal with the problem from another angle. Don’t forget to share this knowledge and subscribe to our YouTube channel for more.

According to an American national survey, divorce takes place ‘‘every 13 seconds’’ in the United States, resulting in an alarming ‘‘2,419,196 divorces per year’’. About ‘‘2.2 million people got married in the EU-28 in 2015’’, Eurostat says. The same year records almost a million (‘‘946,000’’) divorces. ”Systematic estimates of divorce across 33 countries in sub-Saharan Africa show over 20% of first unions end in divorce within 20 years in over two-thirds of the countries’’ (Shelley Clark & Sarah Brauner-Otto, 2015).

 

Marriage is a beautiful project. But it can be tricky. How do you approach marriage in your context? I compiled a series of topics to reflect on. Go through the list below and comment on which topics trouble you the most.

 

God’s will

God wants me to marry a person He guides me to

I can marry any person I want and choose

Faithfulness

I can marry, divorce and remarry as I want

Marriage is a onetime decision, for better and for worse

Time factor

There is a time and season to meet your spouse

I can make things happen on my own

Divine Compatibility

            I should marry a believer God prepared and leads me to

            I should marry someone from my country, race or church

Preparation

            I have savings, a house, a job and other material things

            I meditate and live by 1 Corinthians 13:4-8 daily

Assessment

            Husband and wife should screen each other regularly

            Both should do their part of Godly instructions

Character

            I can pressure my spouse and help change his/her dirty habits

            I play my role, pray and help when I can. God does the rest

Meeting point

            I must meet my spouse in a spirit-filled environment

            I can meet my spouse anywhere God wants

Guidance

            The Holy Spirit guides me to my spouse

            I can follow my intuitions. People can advise me

First step

            A man must always make the first step

            Whether man or woman, let the Holy Spirit guide to inquire

Approach

            Dating is worldly. Men or elders should meet parents

            As the Holy Spirit leads in your context

Truth

            Reason, get opinions and suggestions from people

            Inquire from God by the Holy Spirit’s help

Divorce

            I’m allowed to divorce. Moses permitted it. Jesus too

            I’m not allowed to divorce. Jesus and the Apostles oppose it

Family

            God doesn’t bring two in a union to separate later

            If things aren’t working, flee for your life

Humility

            Admit you’re wrong, trust God to fix the situation

            Don’t get stuck. Divorce and move on. Time is precious

Responsibility

            I must accept responsibility for my actions

            No, I can blame others for my situation

Remarriage

            Only in case of death or when my unbelieving spouse leaves

            I can remarry whenever the current marriage isn’t working

Death of spouse

            Immediately look for another one. There’re many out there

            Analyse your situation. Determine if it’s worth to remarry

Women

            They’re very weak. Men can manipulate them as they want

            Different from men. Possess powers to lift or bring down a man

Divorced

            Reconcile. Don’t seek to remarry

            Remarry whoever you want

Immaturity, Inexperience & carelessness

            Are enough justification for divorce and remarriage

            God requires sincere inquiry from childhood

God’s position

            In rejecting divorce, God hates the divorced & punishes them

            In refuting divorce, God promotes true faithfulness & love 

 Already Remarried

            Move on with the current one, don’t divorced/remarry again

            Divorce again and reconcile with the first, come what may

 

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